ATTRACTION

     Everyone has a different idea what they think is “attractive” in a person. Everybody you ask will have a variety of different answers, from appearance to attitude. This was a hard topic to write about I wanted both a man’s and a women’s point of view of what attracted them to people, and let me tell you the women’s opinion was so much easier to get than the man’s. I asked “Kira” who is a great friend of mine and this is what she said “Just as there are many types of love there are many types of attraction. I think we all have a physical type that we find attractive. I love tall and dark with deep blue eyes you can get lost in. I think however, that real attraction is based in chemistry felt between two people. Someone can go completely against your physical type but if there is chemistry between you it can surpass a simply physical attraction. When you truly connect with someone an initial impression of attractiveness can change in the way we see that person. If you find them funny their smile can be brighter then you initially seen, if they are a good kisser their lips get better to the eye, if you feel a person truly sees you and appreciates what they see their eyes are the most beautiful thing about them”. I think this is the perfect answer and very true I asked a couple of my good guy friends to get a man’s view point and all I got really were descriptive answers to what they looked like physically, although one guy friend let’s call him “Mr. Timmins”, he had a few good points in what he said “looks are important but attitude is more important, I like someone who can talk, honesty is most important, this is the hardest question there is to ask”. He is right this is definitely a question that everyone struggles with.

     My answer to this question has always been the same basic, generic reply you’d expect, “honest, funny, sweet, attentive, someone big to make me feel safe”. The funny thing is once you find your ideal match and they are exactly what you have been looking for, you don’t want it anymore.

So my question to you is why do you think that is?