Sweet Beginnings

You know the feeling when you are just starting out with a new person everything is sweet, polite and fresh. Then after a bit you see the real person in very small pieces, it’s almost like they can only handle being fake for so long. Most people do not do it to be malice; they think that by pretending to like what the other person likes is what they actually want. At first it may seem innocent enough like you may say you love to camp and hike stuff like that, when actually your idea of camping is in a cottage with satellite TV and a fire place. When his/her idea of camping is in tents or a trailer with a fire pit and a battery operated radio, the point is once you tell them that and camping season comes you’re in trouble. Sure you could pretend you have plans but can you make an excuse for every weekend he/she asks? Do you see how this scenario is going to play out, if not let me tell you they are going to get hurt and just because you weren’t honest enough to tell them the truth. You were afraid that if you pretended to be yourself they would just keep looking someone else, but did you ever think maybe they were meant for someone else? Let’s not forget about being grumpy, people tend to pretend to be in a good mood all the time, like your always great and nothing is ever wrong. Well let me tell you what that is the biggest crock no one can be happy 100% of the time so if they act like they are, you know it cannot be true. This is only a couple of so very many exaples of how people change as the relationship grows.

So remember be who you are and no one else, if they don’t like it then it wasn't meant to be and you WILL find someone who will love you for who you REALLY are.