Perfect for now

     Today’s entry is inspired by one of the last comments I made at the end of yesterdays entry referring to; after we find the perfect man/women we don’t want them, we look so long and hard and we date some real winners and kiss some real frogs that remain frogs just to find the perfect match. Then we find one that we think is perfect but just a few months down the road they turn out to be the wrong one, but he/she WAS perfect so does that mean we tend to pick men/women that are perfect for now? Did they have exactly what you needed at that point in your life? I’ve been told you come away with something from every single person you meet, whether it’s a negative or a positive experience you never walk away without something. They also say that it is a learning experience that is necessary for your personal growth to meet the wrong people that heart ache is good for you and that it makes you a stronger person.

     What if we meet the wrong person and before we know it we fall in love with them knowing it’s wrong, do you think that is half the attraction to date someone outside our initial ideals to see if it will work?

     Do we date so many wrong people that for some of us when we do find the “right” man/women and we don’t feel anything should we be surprised, I mean come on this is the person we’ve been waiting for and they are in our grasp and what do we feel... nothing.

So here’s my question to you why do you think that when we find a person with all our “requirements” we feel nothing?