Love stories

Are “chick flicks” a good thing for women to watch or not? Please do not get me wrong here I have seen more than my fare share of them, as a matter a fact cheesy chick flicks are some of my favorite movies and every time I watch them they make me just a little sad. I don’t think that is what they are intended to do however; it just reminds single women about what they DON’T have. I believe they are meant to give women hope that true love actually does exist, that one day they might meet someone and go on a date, or maybe it’s someone you just bumped into on the street by accident and end up having coffee with them and you just magically fall in love and you know instantly that they were meant for you. Those movies were probably made for the true romantic at heart, speaking of which is there even any romance left out there or is it a dead culture? They can only give women hope for so long though, because eventually you would have to give up on looking for something that has evaded you for so long; at the same time though maybe it just makes you more determined to find that love. There is also something else you can learn from watching those movies and that is, if you are unable to find love maybe there are some “open” doors which should be “closed”. They aren’t always easy to find though, sometimes they have been opened for so long you forget about them and don’t realize that they are paralyzing you emotionally. Once you find those doors and close them you just might find that it opens you just that little bit, just enough to show some interest in someone who knows maybe it’s someone you have known for a while, he/she might just look different.

So in closing for this entry I just want to say that yes “chick flicks” might be painful sometimes, but they are still every women’s dream of true love they are what keep us going. HOPE.