Jealousy what’s the point?

     “I’m going out with Will for a coffee I will be back after” she says; that sentence is commonly followed by a look of anger and sometimes a comment like “I don’t think so” or “who’s Will” in a snide voice. Maybe someone can explain to me the reason behind jealous partners; I mean it’s your own insecurities that make you this way I understand that. You’re the one with the trust issues and I mean sure you very well may have valid reasons, maybe you’ve been cheated on or maybe you’ve been lied to, but that is no excuse to treat someone that you say you care for like that they had nothing to do with your past relationships, unless you’re going back to the same person that hurt you in the first place you have no right. However that being said if you’re the one going back to the same person that hurt you then there may be a few questions you should be asking yourself like, how can you be with someone that broke your trust, that hurt you and better yet How can you be with someone that treats you like that?? That would mean you have your own insecurities that you need to work on. That however is another entry all together. Sometimes jealousy isn’t only stemmed from past a relationship sometimes it comes from your home life, maybe your mother/father was like that and that is how you think a relationship should be. Well here’s a revelation for you IT’S NOT!!!

     If your dating and you are a jealous person you need to look at yourself and ask “why am I this way” all it is doing is hurting the people around you and you may very well destroy your shot with a great person, maybe you need time to work on yourself and figure things out before you involve other people in your web of insecurities. So if you’re a jealous person maybe you shouldn’t be dating anyone, maybe you should work on yourself.
If your with someone that is jealous and is constantly keeping you away from your friends and family they are not worth it.

     REMEMBER YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND DESERVE BETTER!!! SAY IT WITH ME I LOVE MYSELF……. I LOVE MYSELF…….I LOVE MYSELF.... I AM WORTH MORE THAN THIS.... I LOVE MYSELF!!!!!!!