Well this is the beginning of what I can only hope to be a successful blog, I'm not a professional writer but I have an awful lot to say. So lets begin shall we?????
LOVE : What is the point??? Why do we purposefully put ourselves out there looking for someone that will hopefully fall in love with us one day when we are running the risk of getting hurt?? Sure you may be one of the lucky ones that finds that “special someone” right off the bat, but not everyone is that lucky.
The first experience of falling in love and feeling that high you get usually starts in your teenage years you know what I mean, that mind blowing, life altering, leg popping feeling you get in the pit of your stomach; the way you feel when the phone rings and it might be him/her, the butterflys you get just before he/she kisses you for the first time, which you think is just a phase but carries on to EVERY TIME. It's a high like no other, it can only be described as blissfull, that is a feeling you will NEVER forget.
See the thought of finding love is great and makes you smile, but then there is the hurt that will almost always follow. I don't think it always followes but normally it will, and that pain sometimes is the worst feeling a person will ever experience. I don't know if it's the thought of someone telling you they love you so very much and your their favorite person one day and the next BAM they don't love you anymore. They break your heart and it's over just like that they fall out of love with you and walk away with you still loving them.
So I ask you: Is is possible to truly get over someone you once loved, can you ever really stop loving someone enough to truly love again?
About Me
- Crystal Lindberg
- London, On, Canada
- I am a single 30 year old mother to a wonderful daughter. I have the very best of friends, I started to write and decided this was more proactive to what I wanted.
i think you posed some great questions. i know i have wondered the same thing. but i have always ended up telling myself that, no matter how much pain i m in or have been in. that feeling you mentioned is always worth the struggle.
ReplyDeleteold saying going its better to have loved. then not to love at all (something like that) i know its a little cliche but there is some truth to it.
My very bestest friend just said something to me that I think is very important for you to read and I am quoting her " I think you can fall out of love, however you can not fall out of TRUE LOVE" Words spoken by Tammy my bestfriend.
ReplyDeleteI believe that you can't really enjoy the highs of love with out feeling the lows. Knowing what it feels like at the "bottom" makes being at the top that much more enjoyable. I also believe that the harder you look for love, the harder it is to find.
ReplyDeletenabber78 you are so right. Love seems to hide when your searching for it!
ReplyDeleteCrystal I've really enjoyed you Blog so far. I've jumped around a bit, but I'll catch up on the rest soon. Keep it going:) Your a few days behind!! LOL
I agree with the comment Tammy made, however, the saddest part about TRUE LOVE is the reality of "choosing your way out!" You don't just fall, you choose to let go!!
I really hope it is possible to feel those teenage emotions again! I've felt a little of that in my twenties but it never lasted very long:( Good luck with this Blog Crystal!!
ReplyDeleteI like the quote in Vanilla Sky, "you can know the sweet, without the bitter!"
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